When you are in a relationship with someone, your whole life changes. You find yourself not caring about the things that used to matter to you… at least some things. Some girls party a lot and are so called “social butterflies” until the day they fall in love. After they do so, they change completely. They leave all the parties behind, they have less time for their friends, and they put most of their energy on their new found love.

I guess that’s the way it should be in a way but…. how much should a woman change for her man?

I’ve seen many kinds of relationships filled with love, even though I can’t understand certain things. There is one specific one I’m thinking about right now, in which the girl couldn’t really go anywhere without having her man question every single detail of where she was going.

Where is it at? Who is going to be there? How will you get there? What will you be wearing? Where did you meet whoever you are going to be with?

and the most “important” one… will there be any other men?

I believe these controlling realtionships aren’t healthy at all. Your partner will feel asphyxiated and without space, which can create many problems.

On the other hand, there are relationships with “extra freedom”, which confuses me sometimes. I’ve seen relationships in which one partner is close friends with his/her ex, in such a way that it makes me believe that they are having a relationship with the wrong person.

I mean… come on! close friends with your ex?

I understand its all about trust, but I believe that this can cause many unnecessary problems. Women tend to feel very insecure when their boyfriend is friends with a person that knows exactly what he is like in every single aspect. She might even know him better than the actual girlfriend.

I guess people have different opinions on this matter, but the question is… How much should you give up for the person you love? Should a person accept everything about you because that is simply who you are? or can they be able to change some things in the name of love?